CHAPTER 25

 

ENGLAND

 

FINAL DAYS

Growing Chrysanthemums for the house






 

Naturally the atmosphere became somewhat awkward between us and Sir Duncan after our dismissal.  He obviously didn’t want us on the estate anymore but due to the labour laws he was forced into giving us notice and paying us for work done.  His way of dealing with this situation was to issue lists of duties via email and then send his wife out to ensure that we completed them as quickly as possible. 



Working in the cold mist









Lady Felicity took her new role very seriously and hounded us throughout the day holding her lists in her hand as she marched around the estate in her wellington boots and tweeds. She must have given up all her normal country lady activities in order to perform this job for her husband.  There was no avoiding her now.  If she couldn’t find us she would call relentlessly on the two-way radio and then the questions would start: “I have walked all around the estate and couldn’t find you anywhere!” She would state in her high pitched voice. 

We had become very rebellious by now and I would confuse her by telling her where I was (or should have been) saying something like “the radio doesn’t seem to be working”, or “I was in the orchard weeding and didn’t hear you call”. 

More likely, I was in my kitchen having a cup of coffee as I had absolutely no incentive to work on the estate any longer, nor could I stomach any more of her questions and commands.

So the lists grew longer and our labours less, while Sir Duncan became more frustrated with us and took it out on his wife who immediately donned her wellington boots and  set out to find us. We took great comfort in this game of hide and seek and became naughty little children, pulling faces behind her back and making insulting remarks in Afrikaans.




Frozen spider web








When we did manage to complete the lists they would spend a lot of energy detailing new jobs that were “exceedingly important” and needed to be done with great urgency.

I have never come across people who created a business out of gardening like this; where all the beauty and enjoyment has been sucked out and replaced with lists, labels, demands and rebukes.  To be so privileged as to own such a magnificent property and to then spend one’s days looking for faults and completely ignoring the wonder and joy of acres of garden filled with flowers, trees and birds is just beyond me.  Instead of enjoying seeing a squirrel on the lawn, Sir Duncan could only see how much damage that animal might do on his property, therefore it should be killed immediately.  To see wild flowers and ivy growing as nature intended and to destroy it all with poisons because it’s not the way he has dictated that his particular piece of nature should look is to me a sin.  Surely an English country estate should represent what the English countryside looks like.  Not clipped to within an inch of its life and labelled with metal tags.  As with his wine cellar his garden was to him just another filing cabinet where everything should be orderly and cross referenced.




Beautiful autumn leaves








On our final day of work we were summoned to the conservatory for a farewell tea.  This tea had been arranged by Lady Felicity who obviously did appreciate our hard work and assistance even though she was unable to share this with her husband. I felt she was torn between her loyalties to her husband and her sense of fairness.   I believe she felt having a tea party for us was the “right” thing to do. Simon, the previous part time consultant and gardener, who was now back full time and in the bosses good books for now, had been asked to be present and I believe this was to ensure no tempers flared over the teapot.

The best china had been laid out with plates of chocolate biscuits which we were informed were very “special” as they didn’t normally have such things for tea. (No doubt, chocolate biscuits were considered rather common for tea in the big house, where Rich Tea biscuits normally graced the tea tray).  We then felt we were expected to eat these special biscuits as a courtesy to Lady Duncan, so we all dipped in dutifully.  Conversation was stilted and after about fifteen minutes Sir Duncan stood up, shook hands with us, and said in a very clipped tone “Well goodbye then” and walked out of the room.  The tea was over apparently.  I felt a need to say something and turned to Lady Felicity, “Thank you for all you’ve done for us and the kindness you’ve shown us during our time here”.  I thought that was rubbing it in a little but didn’t expect what happened next.   She in turn burst into tears and stood up to hug us both!  What a surprise to see some emotion shown and I realised how very much she was controlled by her husband.  I felt absolutely no envy for her life on her country estate with servants at her beck and call and his millions in the bank.  She had probably never been allowed to show her own personality during her life, first being controlled by her father as a child, only to be handed over in marriage to a bully who stifled any sensitivity or emotions she may have wished to show.

 

During that last month we spent many hours searching for work and accommodation.  There were very few replies but John managed to get a positive response from a herb grower and we pinned our hopes on that.  We realised that with winter approaching there would be very little work available in his field.  Finding some temporary accommodation was extremely difficult as we now had our dog Paddy with us.  Holiday homes don’t normally accept dogs and in addition they usually charge by the week which works out to a high monthly rent.  We tried for monthly rentals but everyone expected a minimum of six months and since we had no idea where we were going to get work it didn’t seem wise to take on a six month lease.  We now also had a house full of furniture to move but after getting quotes from three furniture removal companies we realised our wages wouldn’t cover their fees.  This was how we learnt about the “Man with a Van” service in this country. They are everywhere and will pretty much move anything for you for a reasonable fee.

 


OK I'm pretty sure this is Mr T from the A Team but our man looked something like this and was very strong!



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